Apprehend、Love and Accept

                                理解、爱和接受

   就要考六级了，现在就写上一篇英文的作文，其实只是把以前写的一篇作文复制下来而已，个人以为是自己生活所得，值得体会。

          其实，这篇文章主要是讲理解，爱，接受三者之间的关系。其实很微妙，爱不一定意味着理解，而接受也并不一定就会理解，有时理解确又不能接受，或者不能理解，也不能接受，但现实却就在眼前。

                      Apprehend、Love and Accept

Today I discussed with a friend, he said that he accept what I said. But he seem very far-fetched, it is said that he did not want to badger with at the same question any more, so he said he agreed with me did not mean that he apprehend my mind, he just played at me.

I remember I once listened to a radio program, an audience sent a shot message to the DJ, the audience said that he felt very heartrending because he was a sophomore but now, but when went back home( he lives in the country )his parents still vituperated him, he could not why? Why his parent did not apprehend him and take him as an adult and leastwise give him the reverence as an adult because he was grown up. He said his parent did not comprehend him, so they did not love him anymore.

The DJ replied a very ordinary but philosophical answer; he said that nowadays, many younglings felt very irritated of their parent’s incomprehension. They thought they can not understand their parents well are comprehended, because their parents have come through children’s age, but they can not make comprehension their children; on the contrarily, the parents demanded that their children can understand the parents feeling, and it’s so absurd. But the children neglected that it’s a great differences in the growing up circumstance and some other things betweens the parents and the children. We just go without saying that our parents can’t understand our mind is not excused when we are young.

In fact, it’s without doubt that our parent love us, but it’s not predicate that they apprehend us, they love us just because we are their sons or daughters.

And now, we come back to apprehend and accept. Sometimes, we do not accept something because we can’t apprehend it, but some time we can’t understand it but we have to accept it. And also, sometimes, though we understand it, we can not accept it, what is more anguished is that we can’t understand or accept it, but we have to face it. But sometimes, it is life itself.